A couple of years ago my STBXH & I lent his dsis some money as she was struggling. We were doing ok at the time & we were happy to help her.
DH & I have since separated & I am on the breadline (47p in my bank) . I was doing some paperwork over the W/e & found the bank statement showing the loan - I had completely forgotten about it.
Last night (after speaking to STBXH) I sent her a message
‘Hi xxxx, sorry this is out of the blue but I came across some old bank statements & saw our loan to you. Due to my current circumstances I would appreciate repayment of the loan. My bank details are as follows xxxxx. Thank you’
‘MrEducatingmypalate gifted me that money. If I did owe any money I would pay it to him not you’
Hi xxx at the time of the loan it was paid from our joint bank account & from joint earnings therefore half of the amount is repayable to me ‘
She didn’t reply & has now blocked me. STBXH agrees it wasn’t a gift & was a loan
WIBU to ask for repayment??
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WIBU to ask SIL to repay her loan ?
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educatingmypalate · 18/10/2017 11:05
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