Had a row with DH this morning, not sure if I am being U so thought I'd put it out there!
We have 2 DC, ages 2 & 4. I look after them the majority of the time, although work part time. I do school/nursery drop offs, collections and take them to all events, parties, days out etc. I also do all the housework, shopping and budgeting. He works full time 8-5 but never wants to do anything with us at the weekends so I tend to take them out by myself or with my parents.
I go to the gym one or two evenings a week and a weekend morning, around an hour out of the house each time. He is more than welcome to go out or take up a hobby, but he doesn't want to so I figure as he is sat at home of an evening anyway it is a good time for me to go out. Today I asked if I could pop out this afternoon for a couple of hours to the shops on my own. He completely flew off the Handle telling me I live a life of luxury while he is always working.
Does this sound like an unreasonable amount of 'me time'? I guess I could use the crèche and go to the gym during the day but I like to do something with my youngest when I'm not working.
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Pleasedontdrawonyoursister · 15/10/2017 15:29
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