We're organising our Christmas party in work. Normally staff who left during the previous year are invited back, but otherwise it's just the current team.
However, a woman who retired 6 years ago comes back to every party. It's getting a bit awkward as she really only knows a small handful of people here by now, given all the staff changes since she left. I only overlapped with her by a couple of months, and many staff never worked with her at all.
This year, Management want to pay for the Christmas party and provide some Secret Santa type gifts. So it was decided to only invite current staff and no one who has left, even within the last year.
Apparently this ex colleague is really annoyed at being 'excluded' from the party and is putting pressure on a couple of people she's still in contact with to get her invited.
She's married with grown up children and grandchildren living near her, so I don't think it's just that she's lonely and has no other people to spend a Christmas celebration with. She also meets up regularly with friends from when she worked here for meals and things.
AIBU to think she really needs to move on and accept that she no longer works here and the Office Christmas Party really means just that?
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To think this former colleague needs to move on?
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user1485342611 · 14/09/2017 13:40
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