At the local park today with ds6 and dd4. My 3 year old niece was with us too. There's a medium sized tunnel slide and my niece followed another child (about 5 years old) straight down the slide. I had already said to my own two to go down with her.
Anyway, they must've got a bit stuck and the 5 year olds mum shot up the slide shouting at my children for following her down. The child had shorts on so may have got a bit of friction burn going down although nothing was visible. When they came out of the slide the mum said things like 'why did you come down, why didnt you wait, why are you pushing her?' At this point I apologised to the mum who ignored me. I then said to my children that they should always wait till the other children get to the bottom and to say sorry which they did. I then said to the mum that I'm sorry it had happened and that they were just following my niece down because it was her first time. (If they sit with their legs open they can slide down together) she then said thank you for saying sorry but continued ranting to her friend, at which point at walked away.
I hate confrontation and just wanted to get away but part of me feel a like i should've said that they weren't doing it to be mean as we go there all the time and there has never been an incident. It was a busy day and people saw her shouting so I just wanted to get away!
Oh I should add that the child didn't seem to be distressed in any way
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Should I have challenged this mum at the park or was I right to apologise?
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cardboardboxx · 22/08/2017 16:54
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