So my mother has decided to stop all contact with me because I decided to allow my husband to move back in ( we split up four months ago, after meeting up, lots of talking we have decided to give it another go). Anyway my mother is not happy about this because when we first got married it was just a registry wedding no family present, and she feels she wasn't given "her rights of passage " (her words) in giving me away, since she was a single mother and devoted her life to me. She wants us to do the proper wedding before he moves back, because she cannot recognise him as my husband (we have been married for five years with two kids!!!). So I told her she really doesn't have a right to decide if and when he moves back in as it's my home, and we got married five years ago she needs to get over it, plus we can't start to plan a wedding before he moves back in ! She also wanted me to postpone him moving back till november as my grandmother wants to visit in October and doesnt particularly like my husband, so would rather not be around him. Anyway conversation didn't go well and she has said she no longer wants contact with me, she has refused to answer my calls or messages. Honestly I think she is quite ridiculous.
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