I'm very unwell at the moment and it's looking likely that I will be admitted to hospital tomorrow. The hospital is 30 miles from home and we have three children - two at school. He asked me to pack bags for them tonight so he can take them to stay at his mum's while I'm in hospital. His mum's is ten miles from the hospital. He is off work and says he wants to be there so they can all visit me.
However, I think it'd be much better for the DC to be at home and that there's no need for them to be missing school - which is what he intends if they stay at his mum's. I'd only be allowed two visitors at a time anyway so the other DC would he upset when it wasn't their turn and I'd rather just call them than have them see me ill in hospital as it'll worry them.
DH keeps insisting he wants to stay at his mum's so I don't feel abandoned but I think a big part of it is that he hasn't ever taken them to school or bed or anything and he'd rather have his mum to help. I understand that, but I think it's more settling for the DC to be at home and that now is as good a time as any to learn to cope. AIBU?
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Alibubba · 16/05/2017 22:53
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