Ugh. DH is on a rampage. Long story short hes been going on about going on holiday, and I thought yeah ok it would be nice for the kids too so we booked to go away in September, only have the deposit down so I told him we would really need to watch the cash if hes wanting to get it all paid for with a decent amount of spending money. Everything was great.
A few days ago his camera broke on his mobile. The phone works but the camera is fucked. So the moaning starts. How the phone is crap, he can't do anything on it. How he hasn't been able to hear anything on it for ages (never mentioned this, this evolved after I said the phone could still be used without the camera). I reminded him that he agreed to watching the pennies for the holiday. He states he still needs a mobile. I say he can use mine until we can afford one as I don't use a mobile anyway and its only really used when the kids go on youtube and that...nooo mines crap apparently (it is, its an old thing but still useable). I go into total ignore mode, meaning I quite literally ignore anything he says about a phone as can't be bloody arsed. Today we took the kids out to soft play. On our way back he wants to 'see what they have' in the vodaphone shop. Obviously this means more fucking moaning ab out a phone that we can neither afford nor need. However, am in a lot of pain by this point and have already taken my morphine which makes me slightly more agreeable so I say ok. He finds a decent one for a hundred quid which in a moment of weakness I say ok to. I realise now this was a huge mistake.
We can just about afford it. But I am annoyed as he did agree to no unnecessary spending (I don't count taking the kids to softplay as unnecessary spending as its the holidays and its...entertaining the kids) but I did agree to it so said he could get it on Thursday. Get back home, he gets the laptop out and starts tapping away. About 2 hours ago he decides that the phone I agreed to him having in the shop was crap (Samsung Galaxy J3) and he has decided the one he wants now is 160. I told him I had agreed we could waste 100 quid on a phone he didn't really need and that if he wants a different more expensive one, he can go trade in his laptop at CEX and pay part cash part exchange. No, thats no good despite him not touching the laptop for 3 months until tonight and despite us having another (admittedly very slow) laptop too. `He just wants us to pay the 160 quid which would leave us very short. I know 60 quid isn't a lot to most on here but it really is to us, especially when trying to pay for a holiday. he then starts with the 'oh you won't let me buy a phone when I need one' routine and I calmly point out that i said he could get the hundred quid phone, and he had then decided that he had to have a more expensive one, he could still have the hundred quid one but no more unless he was willing to trade some of his electrical crap in for another. Again...huffing and puffing and eventually he went to bed. About 10pm ish.
Hes just came down now for a drink and I said to him just in passing 'oh, I thought you would have been asleep by now'.
He glared at me, pretty much barked 'I was' at me. Then didn't say another word for 5 mins then slouched back off to bed.
I just wanted somewhere to rant tbh, but...WIBU to smother him with a fucking pillow?! God...its like having a bloody moody teenager round the house. I feel I have done something wrong in all of this but cannot figure out what it is (besides losing my resolve and giving in to the cheaper phone whilst in pain and on my meds...weak moment indeed)
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WankingMonkey · 19/04/2017 00:16
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