Hi All, we are a family of 5. DSS, almost 18 (lives with us full time) and 2 DC under 10. We have separate finances. I have always organised and paid for holidays & days out myself. I love holidays. I can no longer afford to take everyone away. DH and DSS expect nice holidays. Our last family holiday was in a nice cottage in Europe. Self catering as that is all I could afford. DH and DSS looked bored most of the time and didn't expect to chip in to prepare food etc. Thing is, if costs were shared with DH we could go on a nicer holiday where we eat out everyday. He doesn't seem to realise that.
I have booked another holiday this summer but it's in the UK. Nice cottage with swimming pool access as well as other activities. DH and DSS are already not showing any enthusiasm. I want to cancel the holiday and take my two DC on an all inclusive holiday with kids activities instead. I know they'd enjoy that. Plus me and DC usually like getting up early and getting on with exploring/ playing on the beach and then enjoying lazy afternoons. DH and DSS would happily sleep until midday everyday of the holiday, which I don't think is practical with young dc in tow.
I wouldn't be unreasonable to just holiday with my dc and leave DH and DSS at home, would I?
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Iwantaniceholiday · 16/04/2017 12:41
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