DP and I buying house but due to timing issues need a bridging loan from my Parents. Narrowed it down to 2 houses.
I (reluctantly) asked Parents during the week and offered for them to look at both before they agreed whether or not to help.
I asked Parents if they wanted DP plus DSD to come or not, if not it would be just me and my DD with them. They said prefer just me and DD.
DP is understandably annoyed and FWIW I feel parents should have included him (my mistake for asking what they preferred) but they need to make an important decision and as it's critical to us at the moment I feel we should respect their wishes. So DP and DSD are not coming.
I can understand why DP feels excluded but I understand why parents would prefer to go in a smaller crowd. They don't have a great history, which doesn't help matters.
AIBU to feel under a lot of pressure now regardless of the outcome of parents' decision?!
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chickenjalfrezi · 14/04/2017 22:57
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