This has happened to me so many times but I never thought this friend would do it. Have known her about 15 years and we've never lived in the same city but always meet up around the longer school holidays. I'm not on social media really and neither of us tends to text/ring an awful lot in between visits - sometimes not at all- but one of us always contacts shortly before a holiday to arrange a meet up.
I texted her last week and got no reply, which I don't think has ever happened before. A week later I rang her twice in one evening and I think she rejected the call. The following evening (last night) I rang her again, twice. It took longer to go to voice mail than the night before and just after the second time she texted to say she was out and would ring me today. She still hasn't.
It was also dd's birthday a couple of weeks ago and she sent nothing and didn't even text. Again, this is a first. I have FB though never really use it, but have been on and seen she's been reasonably active recently and no mention of anything major happening, though I do know there a couple of family issues bubbling away that may have come to a head, so she may be busy with those. She has no partner or dc.
I do have a tendency of this sort of thing happening to me, though the last one was about 10 years ago, so I may be extra paranoid, but I don't think it looks good. But why would someone want to cut you out after 15 years? Should I just leave it now? Feeling very hurt and vulnerable for other reasons atm and not sure how I can pick myself up if she just never rings.
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onlyforthisthread · 01/04/2017 15:09
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