Okay so dh and bil have never been very close. Theres is a 12 year age gap which never helped.
Dh was close to dn but sil was always funny about dh because of ridiculous reasons (dh had long hair, listens to rock music) and she suddenly stopped dh seeing dn.
Anyway fast forward a few years bil and sil are no longer a item. Bil had a massive melt down and me and dh are trying to be supportive. Dh and bil are now very close!
The problem is for no reason both our kids are scared of him? We started going to see bil daily because he needed help with bits and bob and both dd (2 years) and ds (nearly 7 months) will not entertain him at all unless saying goodbye?
They have never been on their own with him, he has never done anything to hurt or frighten them but they just wont entertain him?
I suggested maybe a play date with our two kids and bil two kids.
Dh thinks its a bad idea and that we shouldnt keep trying to push the kids to have a relationship with bil even though dh get upset that the kids are like that and bil has done literally nothing wrong.
I on the other hand think the only way the kids will over come this is if they see their uncle.
Any suggestions? Should I just not take the kids to see their uncle?
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Chickendipper12 · 23/03/2017 16:28
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