Just need some perspective. Be gentle. Long time lurker, very rarely post but a situation at my daughters school today has made me feel uneasy. Im not sure if it's just me being awkward though!
My daughter is 7, in y3. She has teacher cover her class every Thursday so her main teacher has a day of planning time. This is the same across all years. I also work in the school in a support role.
Dd had a literacy lesson which was to write a certain amount of words, creative writing, with a picture on the board as inspiration. It was star wars, so she had no clue what to write and only wrote about 2 lines. Fair enough, not great. So at lunchtime she found me and said that her teacher said she had to go straight in for lunch (the years take it in turns so it wasn't y3 turn yet) and then report to a y5 classroom to go finish her work. She was a bit upset as generally literacy is her stronger subject but I told her no, I wasn't going to question it. She didn't do her work and she needed to do it as her teacher said. So she ate her packed lunch and off she went. A bit teary eyed but still, she went. She came to find me again to let me know she had finished. This was 15mins before end of lunch. Not much time to play but that's not what im annoyed about.
At end of the day, I popped in to classroom to check... had she been messing about, faffing? To which he just said well she barely wrote anything so yeah, faffing.
Fine. I wanted to check so she couldn't spin me a story about other ppl distracting her etc.
I talked to her about it once home, just to say that if she wasnt sure about work etc she should ask teacher and I'm glad he helped her to finish it.
But oh no mummy, he didnt help! He brought the book to the classroom and left. He didn't check in on her, nobody did. I doubt he told a mta as she knows them all and says she didnt see anyone. If the fire alarm had gone, she wouldn't have known what to do as it was a classroom in a different block. Nobody would have known she was there. Or if she was doing her usual swinging on front legs of chair and slipped and whacked her head. Nobody would know.
I know thats worst case scenario but still. It just doesn't sit right with me that a teacher would leave a child inside at lunchtime with no supervision.
The other thing that has irritated me but not end of the world is that she fell in the morning and her knee was a bit bloody, he said he couldn't do anything about it right then (even though there's a fully stocked 1st aid kit in a shed on that playground) and that she'd have to wait till they were inside to get a plaster from the mini classroom kit. They went in, there wasn't any plasters left there, so he said he couldn't do anything about it cos they had to go to assembly. She finally got her knee cleaned and a plaster put on at breaktime an hour after she fell. So she's all sad and emotional this afternoon.
Am I just being a bit precious? She's not my only child, I have an older and a younger child (if that's relevant at all)
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upsidedownfrown · 16/03/2017 16:55
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