I have been friends with two women, I'll call them J and L, for several years, separately from each other. J's children go to the same school that my DCs go to. L lives a couple of doors away from me and has a child that started at the same school last September.
I introduced J and L to each other at the end of the summer holidays, just before L's child started school. As soon as the schools went back, I noticed that J and L were chatting a lot to each other at school collection each day, which is of course fine. However after a while if I went over to talk to them too they would both go fairly quiet as if I was interrupting something huge, and they'd also both be quite offhand with me.
Then they both started to be offhand with me if I saw them separately, with both acting like they had to avoid me at all costs and as if they couldn't get away from me quick enough. They'd both sort of carry on walking if they saw me and just talk quickly over their shoulder as they walked off. They also both stopped replying to any texts that I sent them and I noticed that they both stopped liking or commenting on anything I put on Facebook, whilst at the same time tagging each other regularly for being such a good friend to each other.
I suggested a couple of times after this to each of them separately about meeting up for a coffee but both were very vague and busy so that obviously never came into fruition. I didn't think it would, to be fair. However they both seem to be socialising with each other a lot, even doing things like going to the cinema together and out for a drink. L always refused to go to the cinema or out to a pub with me as she apparently hates cinemas and pubs....
I have other friends, and I know I should just think fuck them, but it's really pissed me off. I have just a few minutes ago got back from the school run with DS and I saw J walking down L's driveway; when she saw me she looked at the hedge next to her as she walked along as if she was looking at it so intently she couldn't possibly see me or say hello to me.
AIBU to be fucked off about it all?
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To be hacked off that my friends, whom I introduced to each other, have both dumped me and are now best of friends?
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Clapwhenyourehappy · 15/03/2017 15:55
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