DH has form for making every little slight a premeditated personal attack, and I have form for not being able to see his pov, so please tell me was IBU?
DH and I married a month before dd(2 mths) was born. I hadn't got round to changing the hospital details to include my new surname so dd was referred to as Baby Geek on all the hospital docs. She was subesquently registered as Geekling MrGeek.
I have yet to update my surname change anywhere except the bank, never mind updating 'Baby Geek' to 'Baby MrGeek' at the hospital. She's a very hungry ebf baby who won't take a bottle and I struggle to keep on top of my own correspondence and that of my DF, who has dementia.
Today a vaxx reminder letter arrived addressed to Baby Geek and DH got very upset/annoyed that it didn't say Baby MrGeek. I felt it wasn't important as it was just a standard letter from the hospital and her surgery has her registered correctly. He huffed a bit and stropped that I wouldn't write or call to get it changed. I suggested he do it if it really meant that much, as I struggle to keep on top of the critical day to day stuff as it is. He won't.
WIBU to suggest that the name on the letter wasn't important? I suspect I possibly was here, as although it means nothing to me it clearly bothers DH - but would you be bothered to such an extent?
And WIBU to suggest he write/call himself?
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ControlGeek · 11/03/2017 14:31
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