I think a brief summary of my relationship with my mother would be that we don't have a great history, unless I'm toeing the line. It has been very unpleasant at times.
We disagreed about something in a phonecall a couple of weeks ago. I kept trying to change the topic, agree to disagree etc but she was insistent and wouldn't. The phonecall was followed by a few texts about how rude I am. I try to avoid difficult conversations by text but I couldn't face calling her as I felt it would be a row so I have basically ignored the messages.
I've tried texting some unrelated pleasant things but she's not having it.
So what would others do? Do you just apologise because it's your mother?
Normally I would say whatever to please her but I've been really hurt by things she has said in the last year. I don't feel like keeping up the apologising/grovelling. But I wonder if I am going too far the other way now.
What is the adult mature reasonable approach in this standoff?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
AIBU to not apologise?
34 replies
Yoshimihere · 06/03/2017 13:04
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.