DH are I are (supposed to be) going out tonight - to the theatre. His choice, he bought the tickets etc, but I'll love it to - no-one is under duress. It's the first night out since waaay before Christmas as we don't have any childcare at the moment. Getting out the house will be a drama - DS won't want me to go and I will, most likely, be late and running, having peeled a snotty 5yo off my leg. I say this to highlight that I won't be bathing, anointing myself, getting made up and swanning into town. All fine, but quite hard work.
ANYWAY - I'm looking forward to having a nice, rare, night out with my DH.
I called him at 3:15, and he was in the pub with a colleague. Eventually it dawned on me that he sounded a bit... merry. I said "are you drunk, you nutter" and he said "not yet!". All very jolly. And I said "don't get too drunk - I don't want to turn up and find you unable to remember your own name." Again, said amused, in a happy tone. Although I mean it. He got really shirty and "oh, fine", I tried to pull it back with a warm tone, but he was in a mood right away. So I ended the call.
For clarity, he has all the freedom he wants. He can go out whenever for beers or dinner or whatever, and frequently does.
My question is this: aibu think that he should be sober at the start of our night out together, which he chose and organised, to the theatre? By which I mean, having had a pint, but not pissed.
Arrrggghhhhhhhhh
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civilfawlty · 03/03/2017 16:28
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