DP's family live in another European country. FIL is gravely ill and not expected to live more than a few days. DP has said he doesn't feel the need to visit as we saw them about a month ago bit he will go if I want to. His family have said that they would love to see us.Visiting involves a one hour flight and two hour train journey.
I have limited leave and can only take three days for close family bereavement. I can't decide whether to visit now or to save my leave for the funeral.
Back story is DP hadn't seen or had any contact with his family for 12 years until very recently when I asked to meet them. He just didn't feel the need to be in touch, no conflict or drama.
What would be best: go now or go to the funeral?
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to decide to 'save' my bereavement leave for the funeral rather than visiting before?
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Iris65 · 28/02/2017 17:21
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