Ds, 17, is going out with friends tonight and then again with his girlfriends family on Saturday night. When he asked about Saturday night I agreed and said that we would go out for the day on Saturday. Last time we tried to have a family day out Ds was going out with his girlfriend in the afternoon and so we were only out together for an hour or so and the rest of us had the rest of the day without Ds which meant going to an event, finding out it was all in the afternoon despite being advertised as all day and so drove Ds home and then drove back. On Saturday we are going to another event at the same place and then doing something important a family to help a relative.
Now he has told me that he wants to go out about 1pm as his girlfriends family are going to see their brother and sil and are leaving at lunch time. I explained that he couldn't as we were going out for a day together and reminded him that last time he missed our day out because of wanting to go out at lunch time. This was in the car; when we got in he barged into me to get past into the lounge and kept shoving me to get past. Then he stormed off to his room and shouted bitch down the stairs at me and then yelled that he was trying to do it right and come out with us just for the morning. I've said that he can't go at all after he barged and shoved at me and called me a bitch.
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atheistmantis · 26/01/2017 18:51
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