I was quietly thinking I was definitely BU until I saw the toby baby/dog thread and started thinking I may not be in the wrong... so thoughts would be welcome!
I am 20wk pregnant and it's a girl. We have 2 DS. I'm Scottish but theoretically mixed race via Indian gran though I look "white" (this is relevant) DH is Irish. We have 2 DS.
I have a friend who I made through work. She's british with pakistani heritage with a swedish DH. They recently moved to my village. We get on well but she has some odd ideas about culture etc. I wore a saree to an Indian friend's wedding and she got upset at me for "cultural appropriation", she defines herself as pakistani though parents were born in scotland etc. Tradition is important to her and that's fine.
DH and I always said that we'd call any DD a Scottish name we love (it's not Isla!) And give her the Irish name of his sister who sadly died in childhood as a middle name. Both are v unusual but go nicely and we may double barrel (think like anna-marie but not)
I have had the baby name chat with my friend a few times and she knows this.
This weekend she told me she's pg too! She told me if it's a girl she wants our Irish name. I said "oh but thats DH sis name" and she said ah yeah our other choice is our scottish name I was a bit too taken aback and just said "errrm" and then her DH came in and changed subject.
Now I know I can't own names but these are specific to us and I'm surprised by her - thought she would pick something pakistani or swedish, especially given her prev behaviour re culture.
Our kids will be in the same small class at school
AIBU to think this is a bit off? How do I approach her without seeming like I want ALL THE NAMES for myself?
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Tabbylady · 23/01/2017 18:40
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