About 4 or 5 years ago I went on a date with a guy I met online. We had a great time, got on brilliantly and the chemistry was there (we had a kiss) but for one reason and another we didn't see each other again and shortly afterwards I met my now ex dp who I was with for 3 years splitting up about a year ago. A few months ago the guy I went on the one date with found me on whatsapp and we started chatting quite regularly. It's now at the point where we're talking about meeting up again however I've put on about 2 stone in that time! I'm working hard to lose it but there's no way it will happen before I see him again. I haven't mentioned it to him, but I'm wondering if I should? On the one hand I feel like if he is prepared then it won't be a shock for him when he sees me, and maybe it's better to find out now if that's something that's a deal breaker for him, but on the other hand I feel like it sounds a bit pathetic and embarrassing to warn someone that I've put on some weight. Almost like I'm apologising for it. When I met him last time I was (in my opinion) a nicely curvy size 14, now I'm a 16 pushing an 18.
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ArgyMargy ·
21/01/2017 18:33
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