I need a reality check here because I'm starting to think I'm going crazy or in some sort of psychological thriller.
I started working at my job about 3 years ago on one department. The day I started I got shown around and introduced to everyone. When introduced to this one girl she said she already knew who I was as her son was born at the same time as my daughter (I had no idea who she was and couldn't remember her from the maternity ward)
Over the next 3 years she's tried hard to strike up a friendship with me of which I was grateful. I took a year out on maternity leave with my second child and when I returned I found I had been moved to the same department as her which I was happy about as she was always very friendly.
Her behaviour towards me since I've moved onto the department has become quite odd. She will ask me incredibly personal questions about my personal life including my sex life with my husband and even go as far to ask how I shave my pubic hair The other women on the department take the piss constantly saying she's a secret lesbian and fancies me. Her behaviour is very flirty towards me and she will stand very close when she speaks and looks at my lips.
The odd part has come in the last couple of weeks. She knows where I live and I've noticed whenever I leave on certain days for nursery pick ups she's ALWAYS outside my house where she will stop and talk to me for a while. If I mention in passing that I am going somewhere, she will be there. When we went to the works Xmas party she insisted on sitting next to me and seemed annoyed with anyone that tried to speak to me.
The weirdest bit came yesterday when we were discussing our children's births. She announced that we went to antenatal classes together (I can't remember her being there, I didn't take much notice of anyone but the teacher) and she said that she remembers me saying to the teacher that my baby was breech and that I was having her turned. She said she remembers I always used to wear a green coat and she even described what my mum looked like who attended the classes with me. She said she remembers my husband brought flowers and balloons into hospital for me (he did) and that my dad came to pick me up from hospital. This all happened 4 years ago.
I can't remember anything about anyone I went to antenatal classes with or who I was in my maternity ward with so was impressed with her memory. When I told DH about it he was alarmed and said with everything else that's been happening with her he's concerned for me. He wants me to speak to my line manager about it and make her aware?! AIBU to think he's over reacting here?
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For DH to suggest if I've got a female stalker?
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BadgerBox · 15/01/2017 18:36
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