I think I probably am, but I am as miserable as sin over here. I have grim morning sickness, which lasts all day but is particularly revolting in the evenings. DH has been an absolute star; he's looked after DD pretty much on his own for much of the Christmas holidays and every night when he gets in from work, he does dinner and bath and bed while I collapse in a nauseous heap. I suggested that when I was better he maybe booked a week skiing with friends or something to have a break - he really has been amazing - but sadly that time has not yet arrived.
This evening, a friend of DH's is visiting London and a few of them are planning to go out for dinner. This friend lives perhaps 6 hours away. We try to visit him and his family once or twice a year. They haven't visited us for perhaps 8 years or so but that isn't a problem - they are very nice people and am very happy to drive to their part of the UK under normal circumstances. I only mention it to point out that it's not a small undertaking, and one to which they not unreasonably feel they haven't been able to commit. I am feeling so horrible, though, that I'm not sure how the hell I'm going to make it to DD's bedtime today. I feel very guilty asking him to come home - he really deserves a break - but even if he came home at normal time, I would be counting down the minutes until he walked in the door. To top the whole bloody thing off, DD is also ill and extra cross. We are collectively an absolute joy in our house today - can you tell?
I'm being unreasonable to ask him not to go to dinner, aren't I? I have obviously also missed out on all the Christmas social events/parties, but I do at least get to see some friends because I have to try to take DD out of the house in order just to get through the day at the moment, and so we do have some days where we go to the park with other local friends etc.
Do I just need to woman up?
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Rockandahardplace123 · 06/01/2017 13:08
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