At nearly 1.30am?
Background is that he is 15 and 'd'p and I have pretty much split up now, just waiting for Xmas to be out of the way so we can deal with everything.
Dp not been speaking to me for weeks and I have moved into the spare room. I went away for Xmas, got back yesterday evening, dp not here but no idea where he was. Dss not here either.
Today dss appears about 4pm. Dp I think came in about 11am but took some stuff from the fridge and left again. Dp got back about 7pm, but didn't know dss was here and went to his bedroom never to be seen since.
Dss was in his room all evening (so neither of them ate anything) coming down once to ask if dp was back but not going to see him when I said he was.
Dss in his room playing online computer games, noisily, and I want to go to sleep. His room is above mine.
Main reason for split is dp lack of parenting of dss (we're not married, just use 'dss' for ease, he's obvs not my actual step son) and me not wanting to live in what has effectively become a house share with a teenager as dp often away for work and just leaves dss with me (without my agreement) yet not allowing me any say in how he behaves.
Lord knows how I'm going to cope for the next few weeks.
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