Not trying to feel sorry for myself, I'm at the end of my tether with DS. He has HFA. He's 12, well into puberty, voice breaking etc. He's taller than me now. We've not had the easiest year, DH was very ill an nearly died in the summer. Thankfully he's well now, DS has started secondary school which was always going to be very difficult and it has been. Up until recently, DS and I usually got on well, I felt I was on the same page as him but over the last few months, he's so rude to me. Serious attitude and really nasty. He called dd a fucker the other day, whereas a couple of months ago he really hated swearing. Obviously I had words with him, I usually confiscate he tablet but even that doesn't touch him anymore. He's self harmed - split his own lip, keeps reopening the wound and he's bitten his arms. I've reported this to the SENCO and taken him to our GP. CAHMS won't see him as they're overloaded!! Obviously, I realise he's had a lot to deal with and that his hormones are raging (which he hates) but I just don't know what to do now, I feel weary of it all. He doesn't listen to anything I say anymore, so I can't get through to him. And it's so overwhelming sometimes dd seems to get forgotten when she puts up with so much from ds. How do I start to get through this? I feel like I've failed him.
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