I was just wondering really what everyone's Christmas days composed of really? I'm feeling a bit fed up post Christmas as the day just felt a bit of a mess and I've said to DH we need some kind of structure next year! Bear with me!
So this year we had a lovely morning on our own, eldest DS (4) had the excited opening presents after discovering Santa had been. Me and DH then prepped food and started turkey, showered and dressed. Then the onslaught began!
My MIL arrived with my parents bringing sacks of presents for everyone. My parents brought a few presents DC which I had spoken to them about asking them not other to waste their money on junk and just buying a few specific items. I'm loathed to allow my DC have mountains of presents as they'd won't appreciate them! Plus I'd rather just a few things I know they want / need so gifts included socks, pjs etc.
My MIL does not listen to this advice and goes and buys loads of gifts, most of which my DS already had so we ended up taking back to shop and swapping!
Anyway as soon as they arrived my MIL just started throwing presents at DS, I don't think we'd barely said merry Christmas and presents were already open! My poor DM just sat and watched as present after present was opened, some of which duplicating hers (character slippers). I could see her heart sinking knowing that she only had one or two presents for him. I guess that's another issue really! What I didn't like was that it was all chaotic and felt really rushed and DC weren't properly able to appreciate the gifts. My Mil shoved bags for myself and DH in our direction but we decided not to open until after lunch where we tried to slow things down and offering presents one by one to individuals and not opening simultaneously.
I know it sounds ridiculous but I just wanted to know what everyone else does to really make the most of the day so we can at least plan for next year!!
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littleladybird14 · 29/12/2016 18:57
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