Right now, this second, I have just reached my limit of absorbing XHs pathetic apathetic SHIT useless 'fathering’ - you know how we have to let all this shit go 'for the kids' to 'keep the peace'? I've had enough.
DD had sports brand joggers for Xmas from her dad. They’re really big so she said to him can she return these and he order her a x and x size instead cos were not sure which of the smaller sizes will be right.
There is actually some urgency because she needs them for a school trip where for various reasons the clothing they are going to take has to be inspected at school in a coup!e of weeks.
He knew for over 2 months he might be getting made redundant but made no on the side savings to put aside some cash - just gave me 9 days notice AFTER he'd been made redundant that I'd have no child maintenance for the foreseeable - 3 weeks before Xmas.
His text back to DD: "Sorry can't afford to order these as I've got no money coming in. I'll give you the receipt and you can exchange them for a different size at the X shop".
Meaning he expects ME to take it back on my time at my expense on his behalf using my car and my petrol - why the SHOULD I!!! It's HIS Xmas present, his responsibility.
I have absolutely had it with this excuse of a man.
Might I add that instead of setting funds aside for his children, he's prioritised tiling his conservatory and bought a new sofa for it instead - and now I'm supposed to manage his bloody Christmas present returns as well?!!!
He's got this entitled, cavalier, condescending attitude that really, REALLY, gets up my nose.
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Pollyanna9 · 27/12/2016 22:10
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