I know I'm being unreasonable and when it comes to Christmas & Birthday's and it's the thought that counts, but I'm getting increasingly annoyed with ExH who buys gifts the kids don't like. Kids are just into and out of Secondary school age so they've been around a while for him to know their tastes. Only he doesn't as he never sees them, which is his choice/loss.
I know I should be grateful that he drops off presents at appropriate days of the year, but we only ever find them left on the doorstep. He never rings the bell even if we are home and he must park up the road so we never hear his car pull up.
I've tried texting him to say child would like such and such if you wish to get them something, but he always gets what the kids from his new family must be into or what he assumes ours are. We get things like model making kits which are complex despite child that it's meant for being Autistic and never going to be able to stay focused that long. Or books again which are just totally beyond that child.
As I said I know I'm being unreasonably but as Christmas approaches again and another parcel left on the doorstep I can't help but dread that it's yet more books and items that will only end up in the local charity shop again. I really wish he'd not even bother and vanish totally from our lives as it's the one last thing he does as he provides nothing else for his oldest children.
Actually now typing that and the fact we never hear or see him, it could be just about anyone who leaves these gifts, maybe a relative leaves them!
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