OK we live abroad, this is our 3rd year here. 1st year we went back and had basically a normal Christmas in the UK. 2 lots of birthdays and Christmas since and DC have not had so much as a card from their Aunts. I have always sent something for both Christmas and birthdays for their children. Now I'm not actually too bothered not that DC no longer get anything, we decided to move etc and I will continue to send gifts regardless, that's my choice.
This year I have 3 lots of Aunts asking me how to send money over and can I get X Y and Z from them for DC for Christmas, in time for Christmas. OK no problem, walked them through how to do it, I have their budget and their respective lists. I have tried to space out all the things I still have to do, so that I can slot in their shopping. Here shops shut midday Christmas eve, so I have 2 and a half days left. I have asked the people in question how things are going. I have said let me know when they have done the transfer and if need be I will buy these things out of my own money while the transfer goes through. I haven't had a single reply for over a week now.
Is it me, or is this just rude? I don't mind if something has changed and they no longer can afford it or something, but they are just leaving me hanging with less and less time left if they do want me to get things.
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sugarplumfairy28 · 21/12/2016 17:40
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