DH and I live about 6 hours away from his retired parents. FIL is a nice bloke but MIL is a PITA. They came to visit after we moved (to our 2 bed flat), and stayed for 4 weeks. During this time MIL treated our place like a hotel, and didn't lift a finger to help with anything throughout the stay (she is bloody messy!). DH loves his parents dearly but can only handle them in small doses himself so he carried on going to work whilst I juggled my PT job and his parents by working from home.
He's invited them to come and stay with us again, this time for 6 weeks, during which time I will be expected to cater for them, clean up after them and keep them occupied whilst he's at work.
The AIBU?: I told DH I'd like to have a cleaner come in a couple of times a week while in laws are here - I struggle to keep up with cleaning, cooking 2-3 meals a day and work (and honestly I kind of resent hoovering around a capable pair of adults who spend all day watching TV and waiting for me to put the kettle on for the umpteenth time). He's said there's no need as he'll help with chores, but we all know that's not going to happen! We can certainly afford it for a few weeks, so is my request really that unreasonable?
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BuffyTheMLMHunter · 18/12/2016 07:07
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