I am a feminist. A significant part of my work is thinking and talking about gender issues.
I am also recently single. And I have noticed a subtle but significant sea-change in the attitude of married couples around me. Not good / close friends- I am thinking more of the parents of my children friends. Couples whom I've known for a very long time, but are acquaintances, not friends. Nothing overt, nothing disrespectful. It's almost as if the body language and eye contact changes. The men (dads) are friendlier (ha your car door is squeaking do you want me to oil that (??)), and the women (moms) are noticeably not. I am prepared to accept I am being paranoid and self-conscious about my newly single state, and I mentioned it to my sister, who is single and has been for a long time. She said something along the lines of welcome to singledom, where every woman thinks you are out to snatch her husband, and so does every husband. Really? Do people really think that? Ughgh
FWIW, these interactions are taking place school/playdates/kids' birthday parties drop off and pick up, where I am definitely not looking my best and not in the mood for flirtatious banter.
However, if true, then maybe I should put some effort into it! never thought of 8:50am school drop off as a mating hunting ground, but apparently it is!! (joking, joking)
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To think couples treat single women suspiciously? (lighthearted, I suppose)
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Evelight · 21/11/2016 18:05
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