It was my birthday month before last and my DM promised me some birthday money and encouraged me to treat myself to a new coat. I spent said money and she promised she'd give it to me.
6 weeks later and still no money and I'm pretty skint this month. I've had a bill for the car, I transferred this too my DF minus the birthday money that they owe me and she had literally gone mad at me. Spitting venom down the phone and saying some really nasty things.
So for a bit of context my DF has an account with the garage and he has always paid my bills and then I transfer the money pretty swiftly. We have done it like this for ages and it works nicely.
I literally do not have the extra to make it up and Tbh cannot see what the issue is. My birthday was 6 weeks ago and she promised me the money and encouraged me to spend it. She has just taken on more hours at work for the opportunity and they are not short of a few bob.
AIBU to have deducted it from the bill?
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AIBU to have deducted late birthday money from money owed to DM?
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scaredofthecity · 11/11/2016 17:48
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