So, everyone on here always says that the kids come first no matter what. My husband has always disagreed with this. He always says that he puts me first before him and the kids. His logic is that by looking after my needs and and ensuring that I am not worried or stressed it insures that we have health and positive relationship.
Obviously I do still worry about stuff but he does his best to deal with things.
Because we are unified and happy Our kids then pick up on relationship and feed off it. Kind of if mummy is happy, everyone is happy.
Now it works for us but I find it difficult to explain that to people and I often get strange looks.....is it that strange?
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user1471451684 · 03/11/2016 18:22
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