Posting this from bed as I'm lying here worrying!
My mum passed away in January and I saved £1500 for her headstone from inheritance. I have now found a lovely stonemasons who do hand carved bespoke headstones but I spoke to them and they said the average price is £3-4k!! Obviously it was going to be expensive, should've thought of that before.
I do have £1500 left from my share of the inheritance, and not going to ask my sister to contribute from her share. Family telling me to ask my (quite well off) gran (maternal) who didn't contribute anything to the funeral. This would feel very awkward to me as if she wanted to contribute she would say, surely?
Then I have to think about VAT which the company said was on top, and the cemetery fee for the council...
Should I go through any means possible to get this headstone or AIBU and get a normal one like everyone else? Let me know if any more info needed - early morning and head all over the place!
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carnation2531 · 01/11/2016 06:26
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