I have a 2 year old DD and have a friend with a DD about a year older. She has a partner who she lives with and is her DDs dad and all is well for her.
I left my DDs dad because of EA and he was utterly vile to me. He loves our daughter though and so far I have viewed no red flags in terms of her, just me, so he still sees her every other weekend. We separated in about January.
At the time, I opened up to my friend, she was there for me when I was angry about the split and when I was heartbroken that I had to let her go so she could spend time with him. She was struggling with her DDs dad herself and we used to discuss it together - however since then they have worked things out.
Tonight I got a text off her saying 'wow, really dont get how you leave DD every other weekend LOL, my DD has gone to her grandmas a night and has only been gone an hour and I just can't stop crying'
Aibu to think this is incredibly insensitive? I don't give my daughter away by choice. Yes, I've grown to enjoy my baby free time, but considering she was the one I turned to when I was heartbroken over it, I genuinely think this was such an insensitive comment to make
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To think this text was insensitive?!
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Lasagne1 · 21/10/2016 23:50
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