Hi. Today the DH is going out with a friend, our lo, his dm and dd and I'm not going. I'm too tired and dizzy for the 2hr drive as ystrday I drove for over 4hrs. He can't drive but his Mum will pick him up. Also the house is an absolute disgrace....as the last few weekends we've been at the in laws due to relatives visiting from abroad. I feel like I'm coming down with something and I have a hugely stressful meeting at work tomorrow with managers to discuss my future. I wouldn't mind but this 'friend' is stunning, he kissed her when he was 16 and they went to a prom together. My FIL made a speech on their wedding day and said how my dh and her were close growing up and my MIL goes on about how they went to the prom together growing up and were so gorgeous together. Also she's always moody around me and gets tetchy with me if I tell off my lo around her. I feel my dh should be at least a tiny bit apologetic he's going out for the day and leaving me to sort out (mostly his) mess. Or should stay and offer to help. We could even take our lo to the park after tidying on the one day we actually get together as a family...he works the rest of the time and he got a day off in the week when he got to see his Mum. I urged him last Sun that we have today just a day us 3. But I made the mistake of asking him to take our lo or for a bit so I could tidy the now unbearable tip....just to the local park....not far away with a weird 'friend'. Maybe I'm being stupid. Bet you'll all tell me it is. My lo is crying now and has gone but v much wanted to stay with me.
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