I know this has probably been done to death but I was hoping to get some similar stories or just get this off my chest to clear my confused head! We have gorgeous triplets, 18 months old. My husband works full time and I have not gone back to work (have a good career that luckily I can back to). So, we always said we would try for the next baby once the triplets got their free nursery hours. I would go back to work, earn a bit more money, save up a bit and then all being well we would start IVF (issues on my side) and fingers crossed get pregnant again. The triplets would be at school by this point. But now I'm questioning when is right and it's driving me mad. Would we better to start IVF sooner, I'm off with the triplets anyway and then go back to work once the new baby could go to nursery? Is it mad to wait and wait when I have to be off and can't work anyway, than to end up taking a load more time off work, better to get started and have a new baby sooner and move forward quicker? I'm so confused and I know that no one can give me any answers but just needed to get it out there as its stressing me out that we will make the wrong decision. And breathe!
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Shouldishouldntishouldi · 23/09/2016 16:28
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