Mil is not in the best of health and she goes on about it a lot but something's don't seem to be adding up at the moment and I don't know if it's me.
Mil has dialysis and was on the transplant list (supposedly).
My gran is in hospital and we have been warned that any day now she will be gone. The day my gran was admitted (it wasn't known it was this serious at the time) mil ring and said she had growths on her kidney and it was possible her cancer was back (she had breast cancer well over 10 years ago but completely recovered and has had no sign since). So me and dh are trying to support each other but and up arguing a lot due to stress. Mil days biopsy booked etc so we wait for results and she says at has to wait to see consultant and it is likely to be months which I was a bit about but I don't really know how these things work. She also says she has been taken off transplant list until result a are known. So any way dh rang hwr yesterday and said things with my gran were v bad. Suddenly Mil has had her results and it's not cancer. Today she rang dh in tears about my gran (they've only met once) and then told dh that she wasn't going back on the transplant list as it was too much hassle (I mean wtf ). I briefly spoke to to my dmum to find out how my dad (it's his mum in hospital) was doing and I mentioned that mil had been given good news etc and my mum who is the nicest person to everyone snapped and said that woman is the nicest attention seeker ever.
Aibu or is the whole thing really weird?
I've posted other threads about pil off behaviour before but this is even worse.
Sorry for the long confusing post.
AIBU?
To think this is very odd? (another mil one)
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