I am currently attempting to get all my ducks in a row to leave my husband at some point in the near( ish) future and have confided in a couple of trusted friends for advice and support. In the process of asking advice they have revealed to me that they ALL have a secret fund - separate to the household finances - that their husbands do not know anything about . In case the marriages break up . All three friends have demonstrated this advance planning for the 'just in case' even though they all admit that they have no reason to think anything like that will happen ... so I started wondering if this is usual ? Am i the only person who has not done this and now in the regrettable position that I am so unprepared ?! Thoughts lovely people ? Xx
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