DP has got a new job working nights. It's been really difficult for him trying to find a new job after he had to leave his old one (due to a tragic accident).
We have a DS who will be a year old in two weeks.
I'm living at my mums right now but we are a matter of weeks from moving into our new home together.
I'm totally fine doing the night shifts with DS and having him so DP can sleep during the day.
My biggest problem is my complete irrational fear of being left on my own at night time.
Because I'm living at my mums for the time being there is always someone here. There have been a few occasions where I have been on my own (with DS) during the evening and into the night a bit and it completely scares me. I always end up in a big mess and someone has to come home.
I do suffer from anxiety so I can see how this will effect the way I feel.
I'm so scared about DP working nights and me having to be on my own from 10pm until he gets home in the early hours. Just the thought of it makes me feel so sick.
DP knows how bad I get but I've encouraged him to take on the job as he's getting down in the dumps not being able to work.
How do you cope if your DP works night shifts? And AIBU to be getting so worked up over this?
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pouncehill · 02/06/2016 22:25
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