Soooo we are having a problem with DD3, she has been potty trained with wees for about 16months when she turned 2, was really quick, dry in a week. For some reason that we have no clue about she had never fully grasped pooing in the potty/toilet, she's says she's scared, it'll hurt etc. We have tried EVERYTHING!! She will very occasionally do it, see that it's fine, tell me in future she's going to do it on the toilet/potty but never does. Unfortunately when we tried keeping with the pull-ups aswell to avoid nasty poo accidents she regressed with the wees so we wear knickers full time and when she needs to poo she'll go into a quiet corner, DTD in her knickers, come tell me, I'll clean her, we'll have a chat about it and the next day the same thing will happen. I've been to the doctors, I've seen a toilet training specialist and they've all told me there is NO medical issue and that she will just eventually be comfortable and do it and that they wouldn't worry about it as an issue until she's atleast 4.
So far it has been manageable because me or DH are never away from her longer than about 4 hours while shes awake so she's just waited till we are there if she needed to BUT I have been offered a job that I really want to take, it's only one day a week and I'm desperate to do it (and for the money). The problem is that it means she will be at nursery in the morning for 3 hours and then with my DB and DSISinlaw for a further 5hours.
Hears my wwyd, would you do the job and leave her with people that long knowing she may do it in her knickers and give them the task of clearing it up ??? They have 2 DDs and we're all very close with each other and provide regular childcare for each other but just not for this long with DD normally. My DH thinks it may be a good thing because it may gently push her into doing it on the toilet as she would probably be embarrassed to do it in her knickers.
Also does anyone have any tips that have maybe been through this with their children?? I'm at a loss and literally don't know what to do anymore
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Wwyd, pooing in knickers, long sorry!!
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Tryingtostayyoung · 24/05/2016 06:59
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