Didn't know what else to call this thread.
I've recently done something that my father and lesser extent mother will strongly disapprove of.
Background is that parents are deeply religious, a Christian minority church with v v strict rules with control every aspect their lives.
Growing up I had:
No friends outside the group
No tv or radio
No hobbies or interests allowed
No groups such as guides, brownies etc
No homework on Sunday
No makeup jewellery
Not allowed to wear trousers
Suffice to say it was awful.
I left the group years and years ago and have married since and have two lovely children.
I do my own thing now but the mind control is always there and the fear of meeting people from the group is always there.
Anyway I did a very 'rebellious' thing recently as I got both ears pierced twice. I've always wanted a piercing so I just went and had it done.
I know this sounds ridiculous and very difficult for 'normal' people to understand, but when my father sees it he is going to go completely nuts.
Even me now at my age, I'm terrified of him. He will shout and rant and be so aggressive over me doing this.
Can anyone help me to out this in perspective? I know it's silly to be afraid of him but I am.
Haven't seen him since I did it but will over the next few months.
I'm embarrassed to write this actually.
I've name changed for this.
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AIBU?
AIBU to feel 'frightened' of my father even though I'm mid thirties?
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BizarreBazar · 19/05/2016 12:51
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19/05/2016 13:14
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