I hate losing my temper with the kids but almost find it impossible not to. I live in London and have to do a 20 min walk with 2 year old and 5 year old to breakfast club at school, then try and get on a bus with pram (often too full so have to let three go by) to nursery, then another bus and a tube to work. We leave the house at 7.30am and my dh is gone at 6.30am so am I on my own for morning routine, both of them scream about getting dressed, leaving the house, not wanting to go in rain. I feel so stressed about getting to work on time. I honestly just feel like screaming at them both to shut up and leave me alone. I don't. But I do raise my voice when five year old has meltdown about brushing teeth etc. Feel like we are constantly forgetting school bags, water bottles etc etc and just feel like such a shit mum. My dh does pick ups but it is a stressful rush to get them in time and then it is really dinner, bath, story, bed, my five year old gets upset if you try and do reading books with him as he is so tired so we just read to him. The truth is they are both normally sweet, easy going kids but they are tired out. We need to work, just hate this cycle of constant rush and stress and feel like I'm failing both of them and just turning into a horrible shouty mum when I want to have time to play with them and listen to them properly.
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