My DS is 10 and quite sensible and reliable (for a 10yo boy )
We've been having various debates about what he should be allowed to do v what his friends are allowed to do- I can't work out whether I'm being over-protective or incredibly negligent and everyone seems to have completely different intuitions on the matter- I have a friend who won't let her 15yo walk 10 mins home from school, for example.
Obviously there are lots of factors that affect one's judgements on this sort of stuff, but just roughly, at what age would you let a sensible child do the following-
- go to the shops alone (5 mins walk, one quiet road to cross)
- stay home alone while you eg pop out to the shops for 10 mins
- stay home alone while you go out for longer (eg 30 mins to pick my DH up)
- walk to school (30 mins, one big road to cross but there is a zebra crossing)
If it makes any difference, we live in London but in a fairly leafy, non-edgy bit.