Long story short. We've been friends for 2 years but been in a relationship for a week.
He broke up with his ex not long before we were together, but they were living together because of the lease. When she found out he was with me, she left the flat. She left just an email and said she'd get her stuff picked up.
Now suddenly she messaged to say she has nowhere to go and she wants to come home. The lease is also in her name so he obviously can't say no.
He spoke to me and we decided that he'd move in with me temporarily while she stayed at their place and found somewhere else to go.
So she was supposed to move in tonight. And he was to come to mine.
Last minute she messaged to say that he's thrown her out so she's going to go and sleep in a park.
He went to all the nearby parks to looks for her. Kept calling messaging. This went on for over three hours. Then she finally messaged to say she'd just come home for a shower. He told her she could stay.
She said she'd stay if he did and if he left, she'd go back to the streets. He asked me if he can stay there tonight and I said no fucking way.
Am I right?
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AIBU to not let him stay the night with the ex still there?
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Nicebucket · 05/04/2016 01:00
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