My dd is yr 5. There have been some issues over the last year or so with another girl. It was particularly acute last year for about 6 weeks with excluding behaviour from this other girl, whispering, pointing, laughing etc. This girl is fairly new to the school. My dd became extremely upset for the first time in her school life. I took this to the head on a couple of occasions and he tackled it by talking the girl in question. Things seemed to settle down for a bit but regularly since then, issues have arisen, although they do then settle for a short time.
The behaviour in question is low level, manipulative stuff- ie leaving my dd out, refusing to allow her to join groups, getting up if my dd tries to sit down next to her, causing issues between well established friends and generally shit stirring. Over the last year, 3 other parents of girls in dd's class have been to the head with concerns about her manipulative and excluding behaviour. To set the context, there are less than 10 girls in my dd's class, so it's half of parents (that I know of). I feel that this child is creating a dysfunctional environment for the girls in the class. The head teacher despite the complaints has never involved the girl's parents but has had occasional talks with the class and individuals about respect, friendship etc. AIBU to expect this to be tackled in a different way? AIBU to raise my concerns again about this girl and the effect she is having on class dynamics/ the happiness of the girls or do I have to expect my dd to toughen up?
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Cloudhopping · 22/03/2016 13:42
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