We moved out of London a couple of years ago, have two small DC. We moved back to my home town in Wales as we could never have afforded to buy a house in London, DH got a job nearby and a short time later, so did I. Both DC are now settled in school. I thought small town life would be nice for my DC and that it would be safe etc compared to London. I thought being closer to my family would give us a bit more help with the DC. We were also excited about buying our own home in an area we could afford to buy in.
The reality has been pretty disappointing once the initial novelty wore off. My family have not really been available to help us very much due to their own busy lives and tbh I don't feel that close to them anymore having not lived near them for so long. I have reconnected with some old friends but don't feel I have much in common with them anymore. I have tried hard to form a new circle but just haven't really succeeded. I find living in this town completely boring. It reminds me of the boredom of my youth and it depresses me. I don't really think I want this for my DC after all. We can't go back to London as it is out of our reach but I feel like giving up on this whole plan and relocating to another, smaller city. AIBU to disrupt my family again? I feel like an idiot for doing this and that I should have known it was a stupid idea. At the same time I just don't think I can stay here for years for the sake of family stability when the place depresses me so much.
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To think moving back to home town was a really bad idea?
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fugglestone · 21/03/2016 21:25
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