My dd and her friend have been best pals for many years . They are in different sets and friendship group at school but always there for each other .
The friend comes from a v wealthy family who have an 8 bed hokiday home which they go to most half terms and summer .
I went with dd when she was about 5 .
Girls now 17 .
Over the last few years the friend has invited girls from her friendship group in school only and the girls continue to regard themselves as best friends .
My dd found out that a girl from the friendship group had again been invited for Easter .
She can't understand why in the say last 15 times she hasn't been invited . She is not after a free hokiday ! - it's about why not invited .
I've started to wonder if her mum doesn't like my dd or something ? It's either that her pal is told to invite someone else or that my dd has upset someone ?
I can't think it's that as we took her on holiday with us and if there was an issue she wd not have been allowed to come . ?
Anyway dd and I feeling a bit perplexed and a little hurt .. Doesn't make sense .
It's silly but I'm wondering if we are not posh enough ?!!! As sometimes other family members who are v privalidged go at same time ??
Anyway do I ask my friend if there is issue ? I don't want to look like I'm seeking invite - rather seeking to understand as its bothering dd and I ! But it's not polite to ask ! Any advice - not good at this sort thing .
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Advice about dd and a friendship issue -Aibu to be upset ?
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ginorwine · 21/03/2016 07:18
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