My daughter is supposed to be going on a two night residential trip with school next week. She doesn't want to go, no amount of encouraging, confidence boosting etc can convince her to go. (I posted about this a few weeks ago).
We've had a terrible few weeks where she has been so distressed about it. Its made her have tummy problems and she's cried every night.
I've decided she's not going and she's so relieved. She knows she's still got to go to school and be with YR3's.
My mum has said some horrible things to her, she told her 'she's a baby, being ridiculous, the other kids will laugh at her, selfish and letting me down'.
My mum also said if she was her mummy she'd stop her from seeing her dad as punishment. We're divorced and she adores him, he's a great dad and I'd never stop her from seeing him. My mum hates him so knew this would piss me off.
My DD looked horrified when she said this and I just sat there like a fool and said nothing. I've since reassured her this will never happen and she's ok.
My mum belittled me as a child and I won't let her do it to my DD so why did I say nothing? Should I leave it or tell her this was unacceptable?
AIBU?
to think my mum was plain nasty to my daughter?
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