FIL called DH last night and said he needed to drop something off at ours today, didn't know when it would be. I said that was no problem, I'd be in and out around nursery runs and busy finishing off an urgent project at home. I'd offer him a cup of tea and toilet if I was in, he could leave object on doorstep if I wasn't around.
He's just left. It was really awkward. I was in, finishing off project frantically before collecting DC. I offered him a cup of tea but said it would have to be a quick one because I was finishing off some work.
He said yes, then looked at his shoes and clearly decided he couldn't be bothered to take them off, so said he wouldn't stay. I said, no problem, I'd see him soon. All very friendly, but I was a bit more upfront than I would normally be. Usually I would have said, don't worry about the shoes on this occasion, but he's got form for putting his shoes on our sofa (I've posted before!) and I feel that we've now got him 'trained' to take shoes off etc. and didn't want to mix messages. My DH thinks I was being unfair. AIBU?
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hedgehog01 · 18/02/2016 15:07
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