Hey,
Slightly new here and first time poster.
I'm a FTM, partner works hard in a outdoor, full on labouring type job, doesn't help a lot with the baby, often sleeps in spare room so he gets a good night sleep etc
Last night, LO went to sleep fine, until 9, wide awake, wanting to play, brought him in with us and just chilled. LO started yawning so got ready to put but to bed, but he was fussy and adamant he did not want to sleep. I was exhausted, I do it all, tried and tried to get LO back to sleep but he wouldn't. Partner could see I was at breaking point, just got up and went to the spare room. After an hour or so, I had to put baby down and just walk away. I was about to crack up ( I feel awful about this) he then came in and I said 'your turn' and walked out. We haven't spoken since and I tried to apologise this morning but he says 'you need help', I said no, I just need you to help more. AIBU? I know he works hard, but we have no family, no extra help, so I really don't get a break.
(The dog also shat on the carpet and he cleaned it up with a letter and dustpan, I wanted to kick him)
He has gone to work and we haven't spoken. I don't really know what to do, how do I get him to help more? It can't all be on me?
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AIBU?
aibu?! relationship?! I don't know :(
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ticklepicklepockle · 16/02/2016 20:31
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